Love is a feeling that takes you and gives you butterflies in your stomach! Modern loveology has led us to believe in concepts such as “love at first sight” and so on. But is it really love? Or is it a craze? While most of us confuse infatuation with love, they are two very separate feelings. So whether you’re falling in love with your partner or it’s just a passing feeling that may soon pass, let’s solve the dilemma with the help of an expert.
Dr. Jyoti Kapoor, senior psychiatrist and founder of Manasthali Wellness, shares the signs you’re in love to make sure you don’t confuse infatuation with love. Before that, let’s understand the difference between infatuation and love.
love versus infatuation
Infatuation is a strong feeling of attraction and fixation on someone, and it happens instantly. Love, on the other hand, is a much deeper feeling that makes you feel connected to your partner. It can be quite confusing to understand the difference between the two, mainly because almost all relationships begin with infatuation. But love comes in when that feeling of infatuation turns into genuine trust and respect.
10 signs that you are in love
If you still can’t tell the difference between the initial feeling of infatuation and love, here are ten signs of love you should know.
1. You mention your partner’s name all the time.
No matter the conversation, if you end up talking about your partner frequently, you fall in love with that person.
2. You are ready for anything for him
Do you think you would sacrifice or give or do anything for your partner? If the bond is so special that you know in your heart that you will do anything and everything to make it happy, you are in love.
3. You are ready to do new things
If your partner asks you to do new things, you want to give them a chance even if it’s not something you normally would do. Trying these new things helps you to establish a real connection with your partner and allows you to relax.
4. You often say “we”
It’s not about ‘me’, it’s about ‘we’ for you now! When you make plans, you think about how your partner can support you. You think about ways to include them in your plans and your future. If you find yourself doing this all the time, you’re crazy!
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5. You started liking love songs
Have corny love songs started making sense to you now? It may not be for everyone, but some people in love feel more romantic when listening to love songs.
6. You find your partner’s quirks endearing
Bad jokes? Too messy? All the features of your beloved look adorable when you are in love. From their quirky sense of humor to their unpredictability, all of their quirks seem appealing and lovable. So, are we there already?
7. You find it perfect
Well, perfection lies in the imperfections! If you find everything about them perfect in the sense that you wouldn’t have it otherwise, you’re in love.
8. Your brain thinks about itself all the time.
You know you are falling in love with your partner when all you think about is them. You’re in the middle of work and BAM – they pop into your head! You’re in the middle of a conversation and all you think about is your partner, which means they’re always on your mind, which is a sign of love.
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9. You don’t mind investing money and time in him
When you are head over heels in love, money is not something that stops you from expressing your love for them! Even if you have always been miserly, you feel like spending on your partner without thinking twice.
10. You feel safe with them
Trust is the foundation and strength of any relationship, and love is no different! If they give you a sense of emotional, mental and physical security, you will stay there for a very long time because your love for them is too strong.
So are you in love? Or infatuation? Well, we hope we helped you figure it all out! And we hope you enjoy this Valentine’s Day with the love of your life.
